Every Tuesday I offer a quick tip for dads and dads-to-be to consider. It may be a reminder, an activity, or a kick in the butt.
One of the most challenging parts of fatherhood is knowing what to expect. There are so many new experiences that any new parent is likely to be overwhelmed unless he takes steps to be better prepared.
Arguably the best way to anticipate fatherhood is to talk to other dads. They’ve been through it all before and can share their successes and failures. You can learn a great deal from these relationships.
Whether co-workers, friends, family members, or dads you meet at one of those “new father” workshops that many hospitals provide, be sure to mine these relationships for various ideas on how to solve deceptively simple challenges that arise over the course of this new life-long pursuit.
The best part is that no matter how long you’ve been a father, you can almost always find another dad who has more experience or can share insights that you may have never considered.
Talk to other fathers. It can save your life. Or at the very least your sanity.